Hate being the bearer of Bad News. Update from Sassy

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Will someone post the link to the go fund me. Please. I'm sure it's still out there, I just don't know hihow find it.

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@Hidalgo said:
Will someone post the link to the go fund me. Please. I'm sure it's still out there, I just don't know hihow find it.

Here is the link. 

 https://www.gofundme.com/for-don-and-sassy

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God bless you, Sass, Don and family.  Just know you are not alone and you're in our prayers every day.  

We love you guys.

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That family has been through so much.  Very sorry to hear this sad news, Sara.  Take care and best wishes sent your way.

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Are thoughts are with you and your family

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Sara, much love to you, Don, and your girls. I pray that you are lifted up, embraced by God, and filled with peace.

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Prayers to Don, Sassy and the girls.

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prayers to you sara and don.  cancer sucks. 

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@StickyBun said:
Sorry to hear it. Hospice is run by amazing people. Put both my sister-in-law and mother-in-law in Hospice, but it looks like she'll have him at home with Hospice volunteers (my Mother volunteered many years ago for this). Hard stuff but she'll thank god for the help.

Amen to that...Just lost my 89 year old MIL this week and Hospice can be a beautiful gateway to "what's next." 

Adding my wishes for peace to Sassy, Don and family. 

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Message from Sara:  yes it was posted on the other board, but I felt it should be spread over here as well.  Feel free to check in over there and leave her a message. She will read it.     Thank you



Thanks and love to all!
I swore I would not fret too much today and wait until hospice workers are here to help but damn......the questions/concerns/worries/fears are overwhelming.....and how do I tell Kasey? I mean....she can't process things the way you &/or I do....biggest fear is he is gone before her graduation (in May). That kid is forever getting the short end of the stick. I've already told my sister that she MUST be here for her graduation (she wasn't for Emma's) and she has assured me she would be. Just seems like every time there is supposed to be a 'Kasey' day something comes along and messes it up......I will do everything in my power to make sure that day she SHINES!....regardless.

yes....I am a mess right now......he's already talking about not being here this summer....but I'm not ready for any of this.....
so totally different when it's a spouse as opposed to an elderly parent....that I have (and can/will) deal with.....this...........

enough for now i guess~as far as a support group goes....you guys rock!! 

oh~early this morning before anybody else was awake (except Kase as I have her to the bus stop by 5:55) I was searching facebook for Cancer Spouses Support Groups. clicked on one and decided to join as I was a mess before getting todays news....so I go to sign up and they wanted to know type of cancer (and you just can't give the body part....be specific) and the next question was therapy being received (and you can't just put chemo or immuno or ? ? ? you must give the name(s) of specific medications....).....I finally just quit.....I mean with a support group that makes you jump through all those hoops simply to get a virtual hug and shoulder....why bother. shoulda known I could just come to you guys~~~